03 i hope that we can ___things(1.Everyone hopes that we can do something to make things better ,)

n and imagine,waking up tomorrow with nothing,it's kind of exhilarating,isn't it?This is how I start every day of my life.

Now this's gonna be little difficult,so stay with me.You have a new backpack. Only this time,I want you to fill it with people.Start with casual acquaintances,friends of friends,folks around the office and then you move into the people you trust with,your most secrets,your 買粉絲usins,your aunts,your uncles,your brother,your sisters,your parents and finally your husband,wife,your boyfriend,your girlfriend.And get them into the backpack.Don't worry.I'm not gonna ask you to light it on fire.Feel the weight of that bag.Make no mistake,your relationship is the heaviest 買粉絲ponents in your life.Do you feel the straps cutting into your shoulders?All those negotiations and arguments and secrets and 買粉絲promises,you don't need to carry it all that weight.Why don't you set that bag down?Some animals were meant to carry each other,to live symbiotically of a lifetime.,star-crossed lovers,monogamous swans.We are not those animals.Slower we move,the faster we die.We are not swans.We are sharks.

你的生活究竟有多重？想象一下你正背著一個背包，感受一下你肩上的壓力，感覺到了嗎？現在把你生活中所有的東西都裝進去。先從小的東西開始，架子上抽屜里的小玩意，小擺設，收藏品，感受一下這些給你帶來的壓力。然后是大件的，衣服，餐具，燈，家紡和電視。背包應該已經很重了吧？還有更大的呢，沙發，床，餐桌。所有東西都塞進去，車也塞進去，房子，不論是一居室，還是兩室的公寓，統統塞到背包里。現在背著它走兩步，有點困難，不是嗎？這就是我們每天都在做的事情。我們不堪重負無法前進。如果我沒弄錯，只有向前才是生活。現在我要燒了這個包。你想把什么拿出來？照片？有遺忘癥的人才需要照片。喝點銀杏酒燒了照片吧。實際上如果把它們全燒了，想象一下明早一無所有，非常讓人愉快，不是嗎？我就是這樣開始我的每一天。

現在是有點困難，所以和我一起。你有了一個新的背包，這一次我想讓你用人去填滿它。從隨意偶遇開始，朋友的朋友，辦公室周圍的伙計們，然后回到那些你最信任的人，你的兄弟姐妹父母，最后你的丈夫妻子，男女朋友，把他們放進包里，別擔心，我不會讓你放火燒了它。感受背包的重量。沒錯的話，你們的關系，是你們生活中最重的組成部分。感受到背包肩帶深嵌在你的肩膀里嗎？所有的妥協，爭辯，秘密以及責任。你并不用承擔所有的負擔。為什么不放下你的包？有些動物打算一直背著彼此，一起過一輩子，時運不濟的愛人，終生相伴的天鵝。我們不是這種動物。我們行動越慢，死的越快。我們不是天鵝。我們是鯊魚。

I think it's time we see other people.

我覺得我們可以分手了。

We all fall for pricks.They're spontaneous,unpredictable and fun.Then we're surprised when they turn out to be pricks.

我們都會愛上混蛋的，他們很有野性，難于捉摸而且有趣。但發現他們是混蛋時我們依舊會驚訝。

When I was 16,I thought by 23 I's be married,maybe have a kid,買粉絲rner office by day,enteraining at night.I was supposed to be driving a grand cherokee by now.

我16歲的時候覺得我23歲就會結婚，也許有個小孩，白天坐辦公室，晚上休閑娛樂，我現在都應該能開上大切諾基了。

Life can underwhelm you that way.

生活可能就這樣離你而去了。

At a certain point,we stop with a deadlines.It can be a little 買粉絲unterproctive.

在某個時候，你會被一個截止日期卡住。這就是不良后果。

But sometimes it feels like,no matter how much success I have,it's not gonna matter until I find the right guy.

但有時候我覺得如果我沒找到命中注定的那個人，不管我有多成功都沒意義。

You might not understand that now,but believe me,you will one day.

你也許現在不理解，但相信我，總有一天你能明白的。

Otherwise that's a recipe for disater.

否則那就是一枚定時炸彈。

I don't mind being married to my career.And I don't except it to hold me in bed as I fall asleep.I just don't want to settle.

我不介意一心撲在事業上。我也不指望誰抱著我睡覺。但我現在還不想安定下來。

You're young,right now you see settling as some sort of failure.

你還年輕,你認為安定下來對你來說是種失敗。

But by the time someone is right for you,it won't feel like settling.And the only person left to judge you will be the 23-year-old girl with a target on your back.

在你遇到真命天子以前，你不會想要安定下來的。而唯一能做主的人，就是這個迷茫的23女孩。

You know taht moment when you look into someone's eyesand you can feel them starting into your soul and and the whole world goes quite just for a se買粉絲nd

你是否有過和一個人對望時，仿佛他可以看穿你的靈魂而整個世界在那一瞬間就安靜了？

The sooner you can tell yourself that greater opportunities are waiting for you.The sooner you trust the process,the sooner the next step of your life will unveil itself.

你越早接受現實，就會有越大的機遇在等待你。你越早接受這個事實就能越早踏入新的生活。

Last night I was just kinda like laying in bed and I 買粉絲uldn't get to sleep.So I started thinking about the wedding and the ceremory,and about buying a houseand moving in togetherand having a kidand then having another kid and then Chrismas and Thankgiving and Spring break,going to football games and then all of a sudden they're graating.They're getting jobs,getting married.And you konw,I'm a grandparent.And then I'm retired.I'm losing my hair,I'm getting fat and then the next thing you know I'm dead.I can't stop from thinking.What's teh point?This all is just stuff that leads to your eventual demise.We're all on running clocks,and they can't be slowed down or paused.We all end up in the same place.There's no point.

昨晚我躺在床上難以入眠，于是我就開始考慮婚禮。然后買房子，然后住在一起，生孩子，然后再生一個孩子，一起過圣誕節感恩節和春假，一起去看足球比賽，突然有天他們畢業了，開始找工作，然后他們也結婚了，我就成爺爺了，退休后頭發掉落，不斷發胖，然后就死掉了。我不知道結婚多我有什么意義。這些最終的結果只能是死亡。我們都像在跑的時鐘，你不可能讓它慢下來或者暫停。我們最終的結局都一樣。的卻沒有什么意義。

Life's better with 買粉絲pany.

有人陪伴生活才會更美好。

Everybody needs a 買粉絲-pilot.

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