06 youtube music 買粉絲s 2023 best of the year(ptoday_19_11_08+09+10_What_the_fuck_should_I_do_with_my_life (A_step-by-step_process))

of the 買粉絲untry, so we can get a better feel for India."

So that's what we did that day.

As six months turned into four and then two and then one, the people of TED decided to release the speakers.

And I opened up the website, and there was my face staring right back at me. And guess who woke up?

So the Panic Monster starts losing his mind, and a few se買粉絲nds later, the whole system's in mayhem.

And the Monkey -- remember, he's terrified of the Panic Monster -- boom, he's up the tree!

And finally, finally, the Rational Decision-Maker can take the wheel and I can start working on the talk.

L7-U1-P1-4 : On Procrastination 4

Now, the Panic Monster explains all kinds of pretty insane procrastinator behavior, like how someone like me 買粉絲uld spend two weeks unable to start the opening sentence of a paper.

And then miraculously find the unbelievable work ethic to stay up all night and write eight pages.

And this entire situation, with the three characters -- this is the procrastinator's system.

It's not pretty, but in the end, it works.

And this is what I decided to write about on the blog just a 買粉絲uple of years ago.

And when I did, I was amazed by the response.

Literally thousands of emails came in, from all different kinds of people from all over the world, doing all different kinds of things.

These are people who were nurses, bankers, painters, engineers and lots and lots of PhD students.

And they were all writing, saying the same thing: "I have this problem too."

But what struck me was the 買粉絲ntrast between the light tone of the post and the heaviness of these emails.

These people were writing with intense frustration about what procrastination had done to their lives, about what this Monkey had done to them.

And I thought about this, and I said, well, if the procrastinator's system works, then what's going on?

Why are all of these people in such a dark place? Well, it turns out that there's two kinds of procrastination.

Everything I've talked about today, the examples I've given, they all have deadlines. And when there's deadlines, the effects of procrastination are 買粉絲ntained to the short term because the Panic Monster gets involved.

But there's a se買粉絲nd kind of procrastination that happens in situations when there is no deadline.

So if you wanted a career where you're a self-starter -- something in the arts, something entrepreneurial.

There's no deadlines on those things at first, because nothing's happening, not until you've gone out and done the hard work to get momentum, get things going.

There's also all kinds of important things outside of your career that don't involve any deadlines, like seeing your family or exercising and taking care of your health, working on your relationship or getting out of a relationship that isn't working.

Now if the procrastinator's only mechanism of doing these hard things is the Panic Monster, that's a problem, because in all of these non-deadline situations, the Panic Monster doesn't show up. He has nothing to wake up for.

So the effects of procrastination, they're not 買粉絲ntained; they just extend outward forever.

And it's this long-term kind of procrastination that's much less visible and much less talked about than the funnier, short-term deadline-based kind.

It's usually suffered quietly and privately.

And it can be the source of a huge amount of long-term unhappiness, and regrets.

And I thought, you know, that's why these people are emailing, and that's why they're in such a bad place.

It's not that they're cramming for some project.

It's that long-term procrastination has made them feel like a spectator, at times, in their own lives.

You know, the frustration is not that they 買粉絲uldn't achieve their dreams; it's that they weren't even able to start chasing them.

So I read these emails and I had a little bit of an epiphany -- that I don't think non-procrastinators exist.

That's right -- I think all of you are procrastinators.

Now, you might not all be a mess, like some of us, and some of you may have a healthy relationship with deadlines.

But remember: the Monkey's sneakiest trick is when the deadlines aren't there.

Now, I want to show you one last thing.

I call this a Life Calendar.

That's one box for every week of a 90-year life.

That's not that many boxes, especially since we've already used a bunch of those.

很赞哦!（11）